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EPISODE · Apr 3, 2026 · 1H 5M

Influence vs Manipulation — Do You Know the Difference?

from The Johnjay Van Es Podcast · host JohnJay Van Es

What are you scared to say out loud? That is where this conversation with Brett Bartholomew starts.We get real about the stuff people usually avoid:• Fertility struggles• Frozen embryos• Messy divorces• What dating looks like when you are trying to stay open without inviting chaos.Then we get into Brett’s wheelhouse. Communication, persuasion, and why trying to “be logical” in an argument almost never works. We talk about how people actually make decisions, how to motivate someone who does not want to listen, and how to influence without turning into a manipulative jerk.We also get into introverts, social burnout, and a simple relationship tool Brett calls “hot zones” that can save you from a lot of unnecessary blowups. Plus a look at his book The Anti-Hero Advantage and why the idea of the “perfect leader” is mostly nonsense.If you want better conversations, stronger boundaries, and a few honest laughs along the way, this one delivers. 🎙️

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What are you scared to say out loud? That is where this conversation with Brett Bartholomew starts. We get real about the stuff people usually avoid: • Fertility struggles • Frozen embryos • Messy divorces • What dating looks like when you are trying to stay open without inviting chaos. Then we get into Brett’s wheelhouse. Communication, persuasion, and why trying to “be logical” in an argument almost never works. We talk about how people actually make decisions, how to motivate someone who d...

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