Insecurities

Insecurities can affect our lives in every relationship.  If we continue to be insecure in ourselves, we will inevitably look for someone to fulfill the emotional wounds within us.  Actually, the reality is that an insecure person will normally end up with the same type of person as them, so therefore creates a relationship built on uncertainty, anxiety, anger, disappointment, and instability.  When someone tells you "they understand you because they lived the same kind of life" be careful.  Your unhealed parts of you mirror each other.