Inside Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma with Jennifer Acker

In this episode of Validate Me, Peter Rosenberg sits down with Jennifer Acker for an honest conversation about sex addiction, sexual compulsivity, validation addiction, and the trauma that betrayal can leave behind.Jennifer Acker breaks down why these behaviors often go much deeper than sex, how the need to feel seen and validated can develop early in life, and the role social media and modern technology can play in feeding that cycle.They also get into the other side of addiction: what happens to the person who has been betrayed. From the shock of discovery and the need to know everything, to disclosure, rebuilding trust, and deciding whether a relationship can actually survive infidelity.Plus, Jennifer Acker explains arousal templates, how unhealthy patterns become wired into the brain, and what it can look like to begin changing them.A different kind of Validate Me conversation, this time with an expert helping us understand what may actually be happening underneath the behavior.Chapters00:00 Intro02:19 Meet Jennifer Acker04:58 What Does “Sex Addiction” Actually Mean?06:27 Understanding Validation Addiction08:08 Where Does the Need for Validation Begin?13:42 Social Media & Modern Validation17:31 When Does the Behavior Become a Problem?22:48 Understanding Betrayal Trauma24:24 Do You Have to Want to Change?25:32 “Tell Me Everything” — What Happens After Betrayal27:53 The Disclosure Process29:33 Lie Detector Tests & Disclosure31:08 Can a Relationship Survive Betrayal?32:10 Can You Ever Fully Trust Again?37:17 How Long Are You “In the Doghouse”?39:08 What Is an Arousal Template?41:37 When Sexual Patterns Become Unhealthy43:14 Can Arousal Patterns Be Rewired?46:42 Building Healthy Intimacy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.