Instead of Duct Taping

Have you ever felt like you are just duct taping your marriage together and not actually building a strong foundation? In this episode, the host. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, explores the process of creating a thriving marriage through personal development and the importance of having a clear identity statement. Our goal is to achieve a "born again marriage," where couples go back to the beginning and rebuild their relationship in a healthier way. Maurice acknowledges that relationships can face challenges, and it's crucial to navigate through four seasons: fall, where things might be messy and falling apart; spring, where efforts are made to nurture the relationship; summer, when the relationship is prospering and fruitful; and winter, when it may face difficulties again. The concept of a personal identity statement is introduced, encouraging listeners to reflect on who they want to be rather than who they currently are. Maurice emphasizes the significance of regularly refining this identity statement through experiences and interactions. Personal development is considered the foundation for working on the relationship. The podcast touches on various tools and techniques, including the D P A R (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) method. This method involves reflecting on actions and interactions, discovering how one wants to respond in different circumstances, and making intentional choices aligned with their identity. Overall, the episode emphasizes the importance of personal growth and understanding one's preferred identity to build a successful and fulfilling marriage. Listeners are encouraged to be intentional about their personal development and strive to live up to their chosen identity, especially during challenging times. Tune in to this insightful episode to learn practical strategies for creating a thriving and resilient marriage through personal development and intentional choices.