Intentional Dating vs Going With The Flow

Are you more of an intentional dater or a go with the flow dater? So many of us have tried dating, we've gone with the flow, we've committed and boom we're still single. Are we doing it all wrong? Are we asking too much? Do we have unrealistic expectations? Are we bored? Are we going with the flow until feelings get involved? Let's talk about it. This is a judgement free zone friends and family. Bring your pen and paper, take notes and let's learn!