Is Child Support Designed to Help Children or Destroy Fathers?

When it comes to CHILD SERVICES, some men prefer to take care of their children without government involvement, while others won't pay CHILD SUPPORT, or be involved without government enforcement.  Did Child Services create the "WEEKEND DAD?"  Should single fathers seek child support on an absentee mother?   After a DIVORCE is ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT fair?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. "ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK"