EPISODE · Aug 5, 2026 · 9 MIN
Is Conflict Getting in the Way of Your Child Feeling Loved? Q&A Part 2
from Conflict to Connection: A Guide to Divorce, Coparenting & Relationships · host Civilised Separations
What this episode is aboutIn this second instalment of listener Q&A, Mitch, Bill and Bella take on two questions sent in by listeners: whether the family court system is set up to genuinely help separating families, and whether conflict between parents can get in the way of a child feeling loved, even when that love has never actually gone anywhere.The conversation moves from the limits of what courts can realistically offer, through to a much more personal discussion about unconditional love, acceptance and authenticity, and why none of these should ever be in competition with each other for a child.This is a reflective, experience-led conversation for parents who want to understand what their children really need, especially when things at home feel tense.Questions answered in this episodeIs conflict between parents getting in the way of a child feeling loved?Has the family court system become too adversarial and legalistic?Do children need unconditional love and acceptance to thrive?Do children ever have to sacrifice their authenticity to feel connected to a parent?Why might a child feel they need to hide part of themselves to be loved?What listeners will gainA clearer sense of what the family court system can and can't offer separating familiesReassurance that children don't have to choose between being authentic and feeling connectedInsight into why children who feel truly safe tend to ask for less reassurance, not moreA gentle way of understanding why a child might seem to hide part of themselves, and what's usually behind itA reminder that when parents support each other's capacity to stay calm, children get the benefit without having to ask for itFollow and supportFollow Conflict to Connection on Spotify and leave a review if this episode resonated.Find further support at https://www.civilisedseparations.co.uk.
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