Is connecting with others really about being extroverted?
from Creative Career Thinking Hosted by Gisela
Is connection really about being extroverted? We tend to explain our social lives through personality “I’m just not good with people,” or “they’re naturally charismatic.” But what if that’s not what’s actually happening? In this episode, we challenge the idea that connection is a personality trait and explore something more uncomfortable, and more interesting: connection might actually be a set of invisible, learnable skills. From curiosity and attention, to reciprocity, comprehension, effort, and spontaneity, we break down the subtle relational work that quietly shapes every interaction we have. The kind of work we rarely name, but generate a brutal impact when displayed (or when we don't). We also look at how modern adulthood driven by productivity, fragmentation, and exhaustion, makes connection harder because the environment we’re in doesn’t support it. We are not entirely to blame. If you’ve ever wondered why some people feel naturally easy to connect with, or why certain conversations flow while others feel like effort, this episode will make you rethink what connection really is. Lastly I am highly passionate about criticising society or outdated norms, and ways (apologise if I get too enthusiastic :D) If you have any thoughts you are welcome to share through Instagram, at Creative Career Thinking. Hope to see you there! Join our Instagram community @creativecareerthinking www.creativecareerthinking.com
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Is connection really about being extroverted? We tend to explain our social lives through personality “I’m just not good with people,” or “they’re naturally charismatic.” But what if that’s not what’s actually happening? In this episode, we challenge the idea that connection is a personality trait and explore something more uncomfortable, and more interesting: connection might actually be a set of invisible, learnable skills. From curiosity and attention, to reciprocity, comprehension, ...
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