Is He Avoidant Or Just Wasting Your Time?

Submit Your Dating Questions Quickie 30-Minute Dating Profile Review - $49 For Substack Members Subscribe For Only $4 To Get 3 Episodes Per Week Become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to the full episode. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and Friday’s full-length advice podcast. Next week, I’ll post an interview with a forensic linguist to discuss signs of deception in writing, ways to tell if someone is being evasive or misleading, the Idaho 4 case, and the Jon Benet ransom note. Consider becoming a paid subscriber to listen to the episodes. Nugget #1 - Reader letter As a cis/het man - I’ll Match with someone, exchange a few fun back and forth communications on the app - which leads to a plan to meet and then I offer my cell# to continue the convo and finalize plans before meeting. I’ve been noticing a number of people don’t want to exchange phone numbers until after meeting and of these people it often doesn’t go beyond that first date. Obviously- First dates go as they go and you say thank you and move on. But I do wonder if I should be seeing this as a personal security issue or as a potential red flag of unavailability? Nugget #2 A woman’s avoidant boyfriend has been running hot and cold. How much longer should she stay on this rollercoaster? Nugget #3 Why are some divorced men swearing off marriage? Follow Jennie Young’s Burned Haystack Dating Method Burn The Haystack Dating Method Facebook Group Jennie Young’s Instagram This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit characteranalysispod.substack.com/subscribe