Is it okay for unmarried couples, who are abstaining from sex, to share hotel rooms while traveling?

Q: We mentor and are friends with many young adults that say they abstain from (premarital) sex but will spend the night at each other’s homes or go on vacation together and share a hotel room.  I would love to hear a theological point of view of why you should not live with your spouse before marriage, spend the night at each other’s places, and/or share a hotel room while on vacation together if you are abstaining from sexual relations. Call or text us your question at 615-281-9694 or email at [email protected].