Is It really Your Business? A
from I Got Kuestions Hosted by thomaskedeshia
A stranger walks up to someone whose car just got hit and tells them not to be mad — because it was "just an accident." That real moment sends Kadie down a rabbit hole: why do we feel entitled to police other people's reactions when we're not even the ones living through the moment? She lays out where she actually stands — you can't tell someone how to react, that's their right, full stop — while also being honest about the tension she wrestles with: reactions should still be proportionate to what actually happened. She gets personal about being told "you're overreacting" and "don't be so dramatic" more times than she can count, and lands on a thesis that's equal parts validating and accountable: your reaction is always valid, but the size of it is yours to check — not a stranger's job to grade. Plus, a No Stupid Kuestions about getting mad at inanimate objects (RIP to one particular bed frame).
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Kadie asks: is it really your business how I react? Sparked by a real story of a bystander policing a stranger’s reaction to a car accident, she explores the line between ”your feelings are valid” and ”your reaction should match the moment” — landing on the idea that reactions are yours to own, not anyone else’s to manage.
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