Is MGTOW a product of men being as unrealistic as women?

I say this not to burn mgtow men. I never have nor will I ever conflate mgtow and INCELs nor will I insult any man belonging to either group. But I have to make this point, as common as it is to see a majority of women who’d rather be single (while they hold out for fictional Christian Grey’s) you can say men of mgtow even the divorced ones are all suffering because we have an idealized albeit false narrative on what a woman is and what she’d provide in a relationship. I elaborate further here!