Is One-Sided Communication Killing Your Relationships?

"Send Ben a text"Powerful Communication PrinciplesSeek to first understand, then to be understood.ListenValidateSeek to understand their modelWhat are their circumstances?How do they think?How are they feeling?What are their actions?What are the results they're creating and what results do they want to create?Understand your own model.Show that you either understand, or that you want to understand. Catch and reprogram your automated responsesYour automated responses are likely to be unintentional, Catch it and replace it with an intentional response.It helps me to explore different perspective. It helps me to explore different driving emotions. Tell the whole truth. One of the things that kills communication is dishonestyBe honest with yourself and others. Tell the WHOLE truth, not just the convenient of soft truth. Be committed to YOUR relationship with them.It's powerful to know that NOTHING you can ever do will change how someone feels towards you. Commit to your relationship with your teen, no matter what!Your teen just wants to be heard, understood, and to belong. Commit to that.Speak from a space of service. This is a tricky one. It's not, "How can I fix you?" It's "How can I help you?"Seek to first understand, then to be understood.Part of communication is being understood. We don't want to ignore this.How can you make things relevant to your teen. How can you make things easier to understand?Join The Firmly Founded Family!The doors to the Firmly Founded Family membership are now open!If you want a happier home, this membership is for you. If you want to give your teen the gift of having a life coach in their corner, this membership is for you and your teen. If you want this school year to go better than the last, and your not sure how to best support your teen, this membership is for you. There's no other membership that we know of that is designed to help both parents and teens. Inside the membership both you and your teen will get support you need to stop the fighting and struggling and start thriving. Join The Family Membership TODAY!Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today.https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz