Is Painful Sex Normal? The Bedroom Gap Explained by Dr. Maria Sophocles | Ep. 101

In this episode I’m joined by Dr. Maria Sophocles to break the silence around painful sex, vaginal atrophy, menopause, and the damaging scripts of ‘duty sex’. Dr. Sophocles shares:Why so many women endure painful sex silentlyThe difference between vaginal atrophy, vulvodynia, and other causes of painHow treatments like vaginal estrogen, lubricants, and dilators can helpWhy sexual pain should never define your worth as a partnerThe importance of communication with doctors and partnersHer upcoming documentary HOT! exploring midlife women’s sexualityHer personal definition of sex: joy, curiosity, and humorThis episode is a must-listen for any woman wanting to understand her body, break free from shame, and embrace a sex life defined by her own needs and desires.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro & Guest Welcome02:10 – The Reality of Painful Sex Globally05:50 – Dr. Maria Sophocles’ Work & TED Talk Impact09:20 – Mercy Sex, Duty Sex, and The Bedroom Gap14:00 – Why Women Feel Obliged to Endure Pain17:50 – Common Causes of Painful Sex in Midlife21:40 – Treatments: Vaginal Estrogen, Lubricants, Dilators26:10 – How To Talk To Your Doctor About Sex31:30 – Communicating With Your Partner About Pain & Pleasure38:00 – The Importance of Sexual Check-Ins43:20 – Dr. Sophocles’ Upcoming Documentary HOT!47:10 – Her Personal Definition of Sex49:00 – Closing Thoughts & Next StepsKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Dr. Maria Sophocles has been a leader in women's healthcare for nearly 30 years, specializing in menopause management and female sexual health. She founded Women’s Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice, and has been a visiting professor and NIH researcher in Switzerland. A board-certified ob/gyn and Menopause Society Certified Practitioner, she has pioneered innovative treatments, including CO2 laser therapy for vaginal atrophy. She serves as CMO of EMBR Labs, Director of Women’s Health Services for Curia Health, and is an advocate for women’s health policy. Dr. Sophocles is also an author, TEDWomen2023 speaker, and frequent media contributor on women's health topics.Connect with Dr. Maria Sophocles:Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariasophoclesmdKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastTake control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out!P3rMbJYVyM5CIZNacDVN