Is Sex A Want Or A Need?

from Two Therapists At A Bar · host Dale Pickett and David Buruchara

Get 15% off your OLIPOP order using this link⁠ and enter the promo code SODALOVE at checkout. In this episode, we explore the unique fulfillment sex provides and whether it’s a want or a need. Can we ever thrive without it? We break down the difference between lust and eros, the role of intimacy in sex, and whether sex can ever be just sex—is casual sex ever truly casual? We also discuss the challenges couples face in sexual fulfillment and when sex reaches its greatest potential in a relationship.00:00 Intro02:32 Is sex a want or a need?04:22 Is life all about pleasure or is there more?11:47 When sex becomes necessary17:20 Intimacy - the missing piece of the sex puzzle18:28 Which stage of a relationship is sex the best?21:11 Is casual sex ever just sex?26:53 Lust vs. Eros35:42 The orgasm gap - why we're not having great sex39:12 Men's insecurities with receiving feedback on sex43:49 Why the Bible uses the word "knew" for sex44:48 Can sex toys ever be a hindrance?46:21 The problem with p*rn and other explicit content58:44 Closing thoughts on intimacyAre you a therapist or clergy? Upgrade your toolkit and earn 3.5 CE hours with our $99 course on providing ⁠ethical faith-informed therapy with Christian couples.