Is shame a good thing?

Casey Chalk joins Trending with Timmerie How do “mansplaining” and “toxic masculinity” impact men?  Does it impact a man’s psyche and pursuits?  (1:50) Why is shame a good thing?  What does it have to do with identity, puberty, transgenderism, and sexuality?  (24:55)    Resources mentioned :    Book: The Obscurity of Scripture: https://stpaulcenter.com/product/the-obscurity-in-scripture-disputing-sola-scriptura-and-the-protestant-notion-of-biblical-perspicuity/#:~:text=not%20much%20more.-,The%20Obscurity%20of%20Scripture%3A    Book on Hunting  https://grossmanontruth.com/product/on-hunting/   Manhood: The Masculine Virtues America Needs by Sen. Josh Hawley: https://www.regnery.com/9781684513574/manhood/