Is She Avoidant... or Just Not That Into You?

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I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just not that into you?In today’s Dear DSO episode, we break down Paul’s situation. He’s stuck in the push-pull dynamic with a woman who’s triggering every anxious bone in his body. I explain why this dynamic is so damn addictive… and what it says about him that he’s still holding on.If you’ve ever felt stuck trying to “figure her out,” this one’s for you.👇 Submit your story to be featured:https://deardso.comJoin The HFM Brotherhood!

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This episode was published on June 23, 2025.

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I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just not that into you?In today’s Dear DSO episode, we break down Paul’s situation....

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