Is The BPD In Your Life Serious About Therapy?

Are you self-sacrificing yourself too much while being abused and traumatized? If the person with Borderline Personality Disorder in your life is not in therapy why are you still there? Is this good for you? If they are how can you know if they are really serious and engaged in the process? I outline an overview of 5 phases/stages of recovery from BPD which is possible but so many will go under pressure and not being engaged in therapy. When that is the case what do Loved Ones of BPD need to Know and need their own healing processes for?