Is Your Strong Faith Helping or Hurting Others? What Romans 14:13-15:2 Says About Getting Along

In this episode of the Daily Bible Refresh, Dr. Brad Miller walks us through Romans 14:13–15:2, using a humorous tailgating story to illustrate how easily we draw lines over trivial things like food while missing the deeper call of the gospel. He reflects on how churches often build entire identities around secondary practices—such as worship styles, Bible translations, or rituals—rather than the central command of love. Dr. Miller emphasizes that “everything is holy in itself” and that the real issue is how we treat one another around these things. He then unpacks Paul’s teaching that spiritual strength is for service, not status, shares a personal story about staying in loving relationship with his grown children despite differences, and ends with a practical action step and prayer focused on choosing relationship over being right.Key Takeaways:Everything is holy in itselfPaul’s point in Romans is that the objects or practices (like food or holy days) are not the real issue; the real issue is how we treat one another around them.Secondary issues shouldn’t become litmus tests for faithChurches often build identities around things like music style, Bible translation, or worship rituals, but these are “secondary things” that can distract from love.The true test of faith is love, not purity of practiceThe passage challenges scorekeeping religion: the question is not “Did you do it exactly right?” but “Did your actions make the way of love easier or harder for others?”Strength is for service, not for status or winning argumentsSpiritual maturity and confidence are meant to help others find their footing, not to prove we’re right—whether at a tailgate, a potluck, or a family gathering.Relationship matters more than being right—especially with familyDr. Miller’s story about his three adult children shows the priority of staying at the table in relationship over trying to script or control their paths.A practical action step: choose staying at the table over winning the pointIdentify one situation where you’ve been “right” at someone else’s expense, and this week, choose to remain in relationship and ask, “How can I help?” instead of trying to win.Links referenced in this episode:voiceofgoddaily.comThe "Daily Bible Refresh" is presented each day by Rev. Dr. Brad Miller who has a goal of speaking a bit of the bible into two million ears (one million people) in three years (2025-2028).He is the author of "The A, B, C-1,2,3 Bible Study Guide" Free to you by clicking HERE.Brad served as a local church pastor for forty years and has a background in radio and podcasting. Moreover, he is a life-long student of The Bible.He believes in the words of Jesus that “scripture is fulfilled in your hearing” (Luke 4:21)The "Daily Bible Refresh" is available seven days a week by 6:00 am ET. The episodes are no longer than ten minutes long and are...Understandable: A reading from the New Testament (usually the Gospel) selected from the Revised Common Lectionary using "The Message" translation.Relatable: You will have a couple of "points to ponder" from the text which will relate to your lifeApplicable: Every episode includes a way you can take action based on the readingA recommended resource to help you go deeper in biblical study and spiritual direction.A prayer for your day.A companion resource to the Voice of God Daily Podcast is the “ABC Bible Study Guide” available by clicking HERE.The "Daily Bible Refresh" is available every day at VoiceofGodDaily.com on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and all major podcast directories.You can help Dr. Brad attain his goal of getting a bit of the bible into two million ears by subscribing to "Daily Bible Refresh" on Apple Podcasts, leaving a five-star rating, and writing a review. More importantly please share with your network of family and friends about the "Daily Bible Refresh".Please make listening to the "Daily Bible Refresh" a part of your daily life.Remember… “All scripture is God-breathed and useful”(2 Timothy 3:16)