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EPISODE · Feb 18, 2026 · 2H 17M

"It Just Drags on for Freaking Ever."

from PAFO - Pond Around and Find Out · host Chris Pondoff, Zoë Mendenall, Kurt Garner

This week the crew covers everything from coffee cups that say “one day at a time” to whether bowling or mini golf should be legally banned as first dates. There’s strong stances on peeing strategy, Reddit rabbit holes, tipping culture, and why some dates require an emergency exit plan. Somewhere between Mardi Gras warnings (“Keep your shirt on. No drinks from strangers. Don’t pee outside.”) and debates about Grammy snubs, the conversation does what it always does — wanders confidently into chaos and somehow lands on something real.Underneath the jokes, there’s a surprisingly honest stretch about friendships, grief, and how many people you can actually count on when things get heavy. Five good friends might be the max. Sleep matters. Anxiety is real. And sometimes first dates, subreddits, and even certain conversations… just drag on for freaking ever. It’s loose, it’s layered, and it’s very PAFO.00:00 Introduction and Sponsorship 01:06 Casual Banter and Coffee Shop Conversations 03:00 Tipping Culture and Customer Interactions 05:55 Experiences with Service Industry and Closing Times 08:59 Massage Experiences and Personal Stories 12:04 Tribute to a Late Friend and Foot Fetish Fridays 14:59 Music, Singing, and Personal Connections 20:58 Reflections on Music and Community 21:13 Music Connections and Community Engagement 22:58 The Grammys: A Reflection on Awards and Recognition 29:03 Personal Reflections: Vulnerability and Accountability 34:59 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 40:01 Curiosity and Nosiness in Relationships 43:30 The Value of Close Friendships 44:36 Navigating Grief and Loss 50:08 Legacy of Brian McKenna 56:56 Awareness and Advocacy in Health 01:01:20 Reflections on Birthdays and Celebrations 01:07:08 Mardi Gras Adventures and Cautionary Tales 01:12:36 The Impact of Fentanyl: A Mother's Heartbreaking Story 01:19:25 Accountability and Justice in Tragic Circumstances 01:22:18 The Changing Landscape of Substance Use Among Teens 01:27:13 Pain Management and the Dangers of Opioids 01:39:04 Exploring Online Communities and Subreddits 01:42:51 Debating Iconic TV Show Endings 01:45:04 Revisiting Classic TV Shows 01:46:24 Pet Peeves in Dating 01:49:21 Ideal First Date Experiences 01:55:54 Navigating Blind Dates and Expectations 01:56:30 Picnic Breakup: A Comedic Tale 01:59:04 Blind Dates and Awkward Introductions 02:00:00 Dating Preferences and Shallow Expectations 02:01:49 First Dates: Weddings and Wrestling 02:03:54 Mental Health and Giving Away Possessions 02:10:08 Understanding Depression and Stigma 02:11:55 Podcasting and Personal Stories Thanks to our sponsors… McKelvey Insurance McKelveyINS.com and LightSource Psychotherapy findyourlightsource.com

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