It Takes A Village But Who Makes Up That Village?

from Why, Dad? · host Andrew Stolpestad, Paul Wandrey

👵 Why involved grandparents can boost kids’ confidence, social skills, and emotional wellbeing🎯 The gap between how you want to parent and how your parents might grandparent🧁 The power of Sunday muffins, last-minute babysitting, and everyday grandparent magic💬 What happens when expectations go unspoken and why clear communication is everything🫱 Creating space for healthy boundaries with extended family🧠 Acknowledging tricky situations like loss, distance, or toxic relationships with grace🧓 Legacy and connection: how grandparents, aunts, uncles, and “chosen family” teach kids they’re loved and lovable🧑‍🍳 A story about a restaurant run by Italian nonnas… and why food is cultural memory🎣 Fishing trips, life advice, and the simple power of being presentBig Ideas“It takes a village” isn’t just a saying—it’s a challenge to build oneRelationships are the foundation. Connection is the goalCommunicate early, clearly, and with empathy—especially when integrating parenting stylesShow up. Be present. That’s enough

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In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew dive into the role grandparents and extended family play in our kids' lives—and how those relationships shape not only our children, but our parenting too. From navigating mismatched parenting styles to embracing the “village” of support, the conversation is rich with real stories, honest reflection, and a good dose of humor. Paul shares both the beauty and the challenge of raising kids near involved grandparents, and Andrew brings the perspective of an intentional uncle learning what it means to show up with love and respect.