It’s Not the Male Gaze: The REAL Reason You Dress Like That

Everyone thinks they know why you dress a certain way: attention, insecurity, male gaze, trying too hard.In Episode 9, Niki and Viki unpack those lazy assumptions and go into a harder question most people avoid:Do you actually know what you are expressing, or are you trying to be seen because you don’t feel seen inside?We talk about the blurry line between self-expression and attention seeking, why people judge women’s clothing so aggressively (spoiler: it is rarely about the outfit), and the uncomfortable truth about external validation.If your self-love is a leaking bucket, no amount of compliments will ever fill it.