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EPISODE · Apr 21, 2026 · 30 MIN

It's Not What You Say It's How You Say It

from ABCs For Leadership & Life Podcast · host Jenn Chloupek and Lauren Miller

Episode 2: It’s Not What You Say, It’s How You Say ItWhat if the problem isn’t what you’re saying—but the way it’s landing? In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful—and often overlooked—elements of leadership and connection: how you communicate.It’s not just about the words you choose, but the delivery systems behind them—your tone, body language, energy, and presence. These are the signals that either build trust and connection…or create distance without you even realizing it.We explore how increasing your awareness of these delivery systems can transform the way you show up in conversations, both personally and professionally. You’ll begin to recognize how your behaviors impact others and learn how to adjust in real time to create more meaningful, positive connections.We also share practical tools to help you strengthen your awareness, align your communication, and lead with greater intention and impact.If you’ve ever felt misunderstood—or want to elevate the way you connect with others—this episode will give you the insight and tools to communicate in a way that truly resonates.Thank you for joining our podcast ABCs for Leadership & Life.If today’s episode challenged your thinking or gave you a new perspective, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with someone who needs it.Remember, leadership starts from within. When you become the boss of your thoughts and intentional in how you show up, everything begins to change.For more tools, resources, and ways to grow, visit us at: https://chloupekconsultingservices.com and https://LaurenEMiller.Com And if you haven’t already, be sure to subscribe and leave a review—it helps us reach and impact more leaders just like you.Until next time…love first, then lead. Jenn and Lauren

Episode 2: It’s Not What You Say, It’s How You Say It What if the problem isn’t what you’re saying—but the way it’s landing? In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful—and often overlooked—elements of leadership and connection: how you communicate. It’s not just about the words you choose, but the delivery systems behind them—your tone, body language, energy, and presence. These are the signals that either build trust and connection…or create distance without you even realizing it...

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