IT’S NOT YOU, IT’S US

IT’S NOT YOU, IT’S US Our Models of Grief Are Broken When someone you love has just died, why does it matter that our cultural models of grief are broken? I mean—who cares? This is about you, not everyone else. Except that, especially in early grief, everyone thinks you’re doing it wrong. The reflection you get from the outside world can make you think you’ve gone crazy on top of everything else.