"I've Brought Her to the Same Café for Every Single Date...Is That a Bad Thing?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who was close to getting it on with a girl on the first date but didn't even try on the second.- A guy who has been on several dates with a girl, all at the same coffee shop, and now he's worried about her lack of emoji when texting.- A guy that's dating two girls and doesn't know how to juggle them.- A guy who asked a girl out for a third date and she said she'd "think about it and let him know."- A guy who's wondering if Tinder is any good for finding a long-term relationship.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If a girl loses feelings after two good dates, you were probably more invested than she was. A date can feel perfect to you while still not being enough for her to continue. More dating experience and more options make it easier to accept that a good date does not guarantee future interest.Do not let dating momentum regress after she comes over and makes out with you. If she came to your place and made out with you on the first date, the second date should keep progressing rather than becoming less physical. Always try to move things forward instead of letting the connection stall.If you want to get a girl back, send the message and get your answer. Most advice will tell you to move on, but if you actually want another chance, nothing happens unless you take the risk. Send a simple message, invite her out, and accept the outcome either way.Do not take every date to the same coffee shop. Having a familiar spot can feel comfortable, but repeating the same coffee date over and over can become boring. Switch things up with activities, different locations, and dates that create more energy than just sitting across from each other talking.Activity dates help prevent conversations from becoming repetitive. Coffee and dinner dates can work early, but eventually you need dates that give you something to do. Activities reduce conversational pressure, create fun disruption, and make the dating experience feel less monotonous.Dating two women at once is a good situation, not a problem. If you are not exclusive with either woman, keep dating both and see which one you like more over time. Do not force yourself to choose too quickly when the whole point of dating is to gather more information.Do not bring up exclusivity just because you are dating multiple women. You are not cheating if nothing has been defined. Avoid unnecessary conversations about who else you are seeing and keep the situation moving unless one of them directly raises the issue.If she says she will think about a third date, follow up instead of waiting forever. Do not make up her mind for her or assume silence means the final answer. Send a simple invite with specific days and let her either accept, reject, or ignore it so you know where you stand.Do not ask for the next date at the end of the current date. Asking in person can put pressure on a woman and lead to vague answers like “I’ll let you know.” It is usually better to wait a few days, text a clear invite, and see how she responds without forcing the moment.Tinder is not pointless for finding a long-term relationship, but it should not be your only strategy. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and most dating apps are full of time wasters, but serious women still exist there. Keep using apps if they work, but also approach women in real life because one real conversation can go further than a match.