"I've Spent Thousands on Dating Apps! Where Are the Girls That Date Short, Old Virgins?!"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who is ruining dates before they even happen because he's expecting too much from girls.- A guy who thinks he shouldn't go on a date with a girl if he doesn't think they'll be together forever.- A guy thinking that maybe he should give up dating his new girl because she doesn't speak English that great.- A frustrated guy that has been on the apps for years and hasn't been on a single date because he's unattractive.- A guy who keeps ending up sitting alone with two glasses of water when he makes a date reservation at a restaurant.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you self-sabotage dates because women do not text enough, stop cutting them off too early. A woman not messaging much does not mean she is uninterested, especially if she is still willing to meet. If she texts you later saying she hopes you are having a good week, treat that as interest and use it to set the date back up.Confirm dates instead of assuming they are not happening. Many women will assume a date is off if you do not check in the day before or the day of. If you want to meet her, follow through, confirm the plan, and stop throwing away dates because she did not text exactly how you wanted.If a woman is willing to meet you, that is already a form of interest. Do not demand high attention over text before you give her a chance in person. Some women show interest by showing up, not by texting constantly, so judge her actions more than her messaging style.Do not end things just because you cannot picture a future too early. If you have only dated a woman for a short time, it is usually too soon to decide whether she could be long-term. Keep seeing her, keep dating other women if needed, and let your opinion develop through experience.Mental health issues are not good girlfriend material just because she is otherwise lovely. A woman can be caring, attractive, and affectionate while still being a bad long-term choice if untreated issues make her unreliable. Do not confuse short-term chemistry with someone you should build a family with.A language barrier does not have to stop a dating connection. If the vibe is good, imperfect English is not a major problem. Ask her directly when she does not understand, encourage her to tell you, and focus more on the connection than perfect communication.Activity dates are especially useful when there is a language barrier. Mini golf, games, and other physical activities reduce the pressure to talk constantly. When conversation is harder, dates that give you something to do can make the interaction more relaxed and fun.There is no special place full of women looking for short guys or older virgins. Do not waste time trying to find a magical niche where your disadvantages disappear. Stop announcing your inexperience, get off dating apps if they are giving you nothing, and start approaching women in public.If dating apps have produced zero dates for years, try real-life approaching instead. Spending money on photos, subscriptions, and profile tweaks is not helping if the result is still no dates. Go to malls, grocery stores, streets, or public places and start talking to women directly.If you get stood up, lower the effort and keep first dates casual. Do not wear a suit, make serious reservations, or overinvest before you even know she will show up. Confirm the date, keep it simple, and if she says she might be sick 30 minutes before, cancel and invite her again another day.