Jamie Paris: Why 'Toxic Masculinity' Isn't Helping Anyone (And What Will)

We sit down with Jamie Paris, a University of Manitoba literature scholar whose research bridges Shakespearean drama with contemporary issues of race, gender and masculinity. Jamie brings a unique perspective to conversations about what it means to be a better man in 2025.As an educator first and foremost, Jamie's work focuses on helping foster the next generation through meaningful classroom discussions about identity, dignity, and human connection. His personal journey - growing up as an orphan, becoming a young father at 17, and finding his path through academia - shapes his approach to understanding masculinity not as something to tear down, but as something to rebuild with joy, care, and moral courage.We're talking:Why many young men today feel ashamed of their gender and how to move beyond "toxic masculinity" conversationsDefining healthy masculinity: the desire to protect, care, and extend joy to othersHow Shakespeare's tragedies teach us about pride, community, and making better choicesWhy preventing gender-based violence starts with teaching consent and bodily autonomy from a young ageJamie challenges us to move past the question of "who's right and who's wrong" and instead focus on rebuilding trust - between individuals, communities, and across differences. His work reminds us that masculinity, when rooted in love and care for others, can be a source of strength and joy rather than harm.Whether you're a parent trying to raise thoughtful children, an educator working with young adults, or someone interested in how literature connects to contemporary social issues, this conversation offers practical insights into creating more meaningful connections in our communities.