Jason Strudwick: Kids Aren't Your Scorecard, A Culture of FOMO & Problems with Super Teams

Jason Strudwick played over 600 NHL games across a 17-year pro career with the Islanders, Canucks, Blackhawks, Rangers, and Oilers. Since retiring, he's become a broadcaster, youth hockey coach, and dad to three kids active in sports, giving him a rare view of the youth sports system from every angle.In this episode, Jason gets refreshingly honest: why he tells parents the truth even when they don't want to hear it, why "your kids aren't your scorecard," and why no five-day camp has ever turned a player into someone 50% better. He and Scott dig into the rise of private academies, the real financial cost of access in hockey, the pressure of FOMO on parents and kids alike, and explains why physical literacy, not early specialization, is the real long-term advantage. He also opens up about his own physical and mental health routine, and the identity crisis so many athletes face when sport doesn't work out the way they hoped.If you're navigating minor hockey, private leagues, camps, or just wondering whether you're doing right by your kid, this conversation is full of hard-earned, no-nonsense perspective.Better Sports Parents is helping parents positively contribute to the youth sports environment. Subscribe for new episodes every week. Chapters:00:00 Opening02:08 Introducing Jason Strudwick03:34 Pushing Kids Harder Than We Pushed Ourselves07:04 Overexposure and the Injury Risk08:44 Reading What Your Kid Actually Wants11:10 "Kids Aren't Your Scorecard" 3:05 No Kid Improves Dramatically in Five Days15:06 Shane Doan: "We All End Up Here"18:48 Why Parents Need to Talk to Each Other23:35 Tell the Truth as a Coach26:11 The Rise of Private Academies30:36 The Accessibility Gap in Hockey32:01 What Age Should Kids Specialize?36:07 Letting Family Values Lead the Decisions38:14 Do Travel Tournaments Actually Help?40:48 The Problem With Super Teams42:52 Give Your Coaches a Break44:53 Free Development Tools Online49:11 Jason's Own Late-Blooming Journey50:44 Why Multi-Sport Matters53:24 Skate, Ski, Swim: Physical Literacy for Life57:38 Physical Activity and Mental Health1:00:36 When Sport Becomes Your Identity1:02:56 The Number One Issue in Youth Sports Today1:05:39 You're Not Paying for Performance1:07:39 The Real Cost of Access in Youth SportsResources:Jason StrudwickGot Yer Back PodcastBetter Sports Parents