Jill & Derick on Losing Their Baby at 5 Months

Jill and Derick open up about one of the hardest seasons of their lives, the loss of their daughter Isla Marie during pregnancy. In this emotional and deeply honest conversation, Jill and Derick share the story of discovering something was wrong, walking through the heartbreaking moment they learned their baby had died, and how they navigated grief as a couple and as parents. They also talk about faith, community, and the practical ways friends and family supported them during this devastating loss. In this episode we discuss: Jill & Derick’s story of losing their daughter Isla Marie What it was like receiving the devastating news Navigating grief as a husband and wife How their church community supported them Talking to their children about pregnancy loss Practical ways to support families who have lost a baby Finding hope in faith during unimaginable heartbreak Our prayer is that this conversation helps anyone who has experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or the loss of a child feel less alone. If you or someone you love has experienced pregnancy loss, we hope this episode encourages you and reminds you that hope can still be found even in the darkest seasons. ❤️ 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:07 - Discussion on Loss and Hope 00:02:10 - Understanding the Concept of Loss 00:03:42 - The Story of Isla Marie 00:04:03 - Pregnancy Challenges 00:11:51 - The Pregnancy Journey 00:15:31 - Emergency Room Visit and Tests 00:17:27 - Decision Making and Hospital Visit 00:17:45 - Support from Family and Church 00:21:20 - Importance of Community 00:23:08 - Delivery of Isla and Grief 00:25:46 - Dealing with Loss and Work 00:30:48 - Coming Home Without Isla 00:31:16 - Support from Pastor and Church Family 00:32:32 - The Physical and Emotional Struggles Postpartum 00:34:34 - Planning for Isla's Funeral 00:35:29 - Helpful Resources and Support 00:39:46 - The Pain of Coming Home Without Isla 00:43:20 - Importance of Tangible Support 00:43:55 - Remembering Isla in Tangible Ways 00:46:26 - Preparing for Isla's Funeral 00:47:48 - The Importance of Taking Pictures 00:48:54 - Honoring Life and Dignity 00:49:19 - Christian History and the Dignity of Life 00:51:48 - The Church's Role in Dignifying Life 00:52:26 - Children's Response to Isla's Loss 00:56:08 - Involving the Children in Funeral Preparations 00:57:22 - The Funeral and Burial 00:59:49 - Creating Sweet Memories at Isla's Grave 01:00:41 - Advice for Parents Facing a Similar Loss 01:01:36 - Understanding Paisley's Law and Stillbirth Certificate 01:01:55 - The Importance of Tangible Validation 01:03:24 - The Role of Parenting and Hope 01:03:33 - The Power of Practical Wisdom and Hope 01:04:53 - The Transition and Grief Therapy 01:05:33 - The Role of Therapists and Practical Ways to Process Loss 01:06:54 - The Power of God's Word in Grieving 01:08:10 - The Acceptance of Grief 01:08:45 - Conclusion and Appreciation 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: EVERY PLATE: What are you waiting for? Dig into these flavor-packed meals your household will love. New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $2.99 a meal. Go to https://everyplate.com/podcast and use code JINGER299 to get started. Applied as discount on first box + $10 off your first month, limited time only. ARTICLE: If you’re looking to upgrade your space, we’ve been loving Article. Their furniture is modern, high-quality, and easy to style. Go to https://www.article.com/discount/jinger for $50 off your first purchase. COZY EARTH: Luxury Shouldn’t Be Out of Reach. Visit https://CozyEarth.com/jinger/ and use my exclusive code JINGER for 20% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices