EPISODE · Jun 27, 2025 · 1H 9M
JJ Unplugged S01E04: Pretending
from JJ Unplugged · host Xander Jake | XJ
Welcome to Episode 4 of JJ Unplugged. This one’s close to the heart.We unpack:Why pretending starts early and often sticksGrowing up queer in a conservative cultureThe performance of safety: at work, at home, and on stageAttachment styles, emotional regulation, and overstimulationWhy “being yourself” isn’t always an option and how to choose it anywayFarting, soup-based coming outs, and the persona named IgorThis episode is vulnerable, honest, and packed with the kinds of stories that rarely get told out loud. If you’ve ever had to edit yourself to feel safe, you’re not alone.Content Note: Includes themes of queerness, identity masking, family trauma, and emotional dysregulation.P.S. We’re not medical or mental health professionals. Everything we share on this podcast is based on our own personal experiences and opinions. If you’re dealing with any mental health concerns, we always recommend speaking to a qualified professional.
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In this episode, we go deep on the theme of pretending - in relationships, at work, on stage, and even with ourselves. From Jake’s story of growing up gay in Latvia to Jen’s take on emotional masks and attachment styles, we explore why pretending becomes survival… and how authenticity starts to feel like rebellion.
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