拒绝：我如何礼貌的拒绝一个我不想一起相处的人

How do I politely reject a person I want to be with?It's not that I'm playing hard to get. It's just that I'm working on myself and I don’t have much to offer as a person. I know it would be selfish to ask them to wait for me, but at the same time that's what I want. What should I do?Franklin Veaux, author of the relationship book More Than Two.Written Jan 26It's not that I'm playing hard to get. It's just that I'm working on myself and I don’t have much to offer as a person. I know it would be selfish to ask them to wait for me, but at the same time that's what I want. What should I do?You should understand that you don’t work on yourself in a vacuum, and the idea that you don’t have anything to offer is just good old-fashioned low self-esteem theater.I would recommend that you start working on yourself by working on your self-esteem. You do that by doing things that frighten you. Like asking them out.