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EPISODE · Feb 2, 2023 · 1H 1M

Judy Wilkins - Smith - Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint

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[email protected] https://judywilkins-smith.com/ Not Feeling the Love this Valentine’s Day? Your Ancestry Could be Messing with Your Love Life Decode the Emotional DNA you’ve inherited from your family system to finally understand, break free and create the relationship you desire. People the world over are fascinated with their ancestry. Over 100M family trees have been built on Ancestry.com alone, but it turns out we don’t just inherit our physical DNA. Neuroscience and epigenetics show there are many other kinds of patterns we inherit- patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors called Emotional DNA. Our Relationship Patterns are an example of our Emotional DNA. Quite unconsciously, we tend to base our behaviors on the models that precede us. If we look at the nature of our own relationships, chances are we may find at least one multi-generational pattern lurking somewhere. Do you feel resentful and put upon because you’re always the responsible one? Perhaps your mother and/or your grandmother had to shoulder most all the responsibility for their families because their husbands abandoned them. Or maybe your grandfather lost the family home because he gambled away his money and you now find yourself mistrustful of all men. The question is . . . whose fears, annoyances, dislikes, and withdrawals are echoing in our relationships, and how do we put a stop to them or even change them into strengths? National Media Reel | What is Systemic Work and Constellations? Interview op: Judy Wilkins-Smith, world-renowned Systemic Work and Constellations Expert, Author, and Motivational Speaker, explains how to use systemic Work and Constellations to uncover the multi-generational patterns that instruct our relationships, discern those that are in service of growth and those that are not, and offers guidance for shifting those limiting, inherited patterns to create healthy, dynamic relationships. Talk Points: People the world over are fascinated with their ancestry. Over 100M family trees have been built on Ancestry.com alone to research family history. Can we also research those family trees for our Emotional DNA? What is Emotional DNA, and what scientific evidence is there of it? How can we best identify inherited relationship patterns? Where do they come from? Once we identify those patterns, how can we break free of those that are limiting us? And how can we cement those that are supporting us? What is Systemic Work and constellations? About Judy Wilkins-Smith: Judy Wilkins-Smith is a highly regarded organizational, individual, and family patterns expert. A systemic executive coach, trainer, facilitator, thought partner, and leadership conference and motivational speaker, she has 18 years of expertise in assisting high-performance individuals, Fortune 500 executives, and legacy families to end limiting cycles and reframe challenges into lasting breakthroughs and peak performance. Passionate about visionary leadership and positive, accelerated, global change, Judy explores critical dynamics in personal and organizational systems and the points at which they intersect, to create growth and success. As the Founder of System Dynamics for Individuals and Organizations, she collaborates with individuals and corporate decision-makers to implement innovative, ‘whole system’ design elements, ensuring balance, appetite for excellence, passion, and sustained success. She is the author of Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint: A Powerful Guide to Transformation Through Disentangling Multigenerational Patterns (Sounds True). Learn more at: https://judywilkins-smith.com/

[email protected] https://judywilkins-smith.com/ Not Feeling the Love this Valentine’s Day? Your Ancestry Could be Messing with Your Love Life Decode the Emotional DNA you’ve inherited from your family system to finally understand, break free and create the relationship you desire. People the world over are fascinated with their ancestry. Over 100M family trees have been built on Ancestry.com alone, but it turns out we don’t just inherit our physical DNA. Neuroscience and epigenetics show there are many other kinds of patterns we inherit- patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors called Emotional DNA. Our Relationship Patterns are an example of our Emotional DNA. Quite unconsciously, we tend to base our behaviors on the models that precede us. If we look at the nature of our own relationships, chances are we may find at least one multi-generational pattern lurking somewhere. Do you feel resentful and put upon because you’re always the responsible one? Perhaps your mother and/or your grandmother had to shoulder most all the responsibility for their families because their husbands abandoned them. Or maybe your grandfather lost the family home because he gambled away his money and you now find yourself mistrustful of all men. The question is . . . whose fears, annoyances, dislikes, and withdrawals are echoing in our relationships, and how do we put a stop to them or even change them into strengths? National Media Reel | What is Systemic Work and Constellations? Interview op: Judy Wilkins-Smith, world-renowned Systemic Work and Constellations Expert, Author, and Motivational Speaker, explains how to use systemic Work and Constellations to uncover the multi-generational patterns that instruct our relationships, discern those that are in service of growth and those that are not, and offers guidance for shifting those limiting, inherited patterns to create healthy, dynamic relationships. Talk Points: People the world over are fascinated with their ancestry. Over 100M family trees have been built on Ancestry.com alone to research family history. Can we also research those family trees for our Emotional DNA? What is Emotional DNA, and what scientific evidence is there of it? How can we best identify inherited relationship patterns? Where do they come from? Once we identify those patterns, how can we break free of those that are limiting us? And how can we cement those that are supporting us? What is Systemic Work and constellations? About Judy Wilkins-Smith: Judy Wilkins-Smith is a highly regarded organizational, individual, and family patterns expert. A systemic executive coach, trainer, facilitator, thought partner, and leadership conference and motivational speaker, she has 18 years of expertise in assisting high-performance individuals, Fortune 500 executives, and legacy families to end limiting cycles and reframe challenges into lasting breakthroughs and peak performance. Passionate about visionary leadership and positive, accelerated, global change, Judy explores critical dynamics in personal and organizational systems and the points at which they intersect, to create growth and success. As the Founder of System Dynamics for Individuals and Organizations, she collaborates with individuals and corporate decision-makers to implement innovative, ‘whole system’ design elements, ensuring balance, appetite for excellence, passion, and sustained success. She is the author of Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint: A Powerful Guide to Transformation Through Disentangling Multigenerational Patterns (Sounds True). Learn more at: https://judywilkins-smith.com/

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