Kate Lav: Sobriety, Sniffies & Self-Discovery (Live at The Black Cat)

Send us Fan MailEver felt like you weren’t “queer enough” to come out? Or wondered if you need a label to belong? This episode is for anyone who’s still figuring it out.Recorded live at the historic Black Cat in Silver Lake, BabyGay™ Podcast host PJ Brescia (they/them) welcomes comedian and Six Feet Above podcast host Kate Lav for a vulnerable, hilarious, and deeply relatable conversation about queer identity, sobriety, demisexuality, and modern dating culture. From first queer crushes to bi-erasure, hookup apps like Sniffies, to the search for genuine connection, Kate and PJ keep it honest and unfiltered.They also get real about healing after addiction, finding your voice in stand-up comedy, and what it means to take up space as your full self — even when you’re still unsure who that is.You’re not alone. This conversation is proof that there’s no one way to be queer...and no deadline to claim your truth.If you’re in LA, catch Kate’s weekly comedy show with OJ Stellar: The Download at POW House.This episode is presented by Labo Beauté Salon in North Hollywood. Truly the best nail salon in LA! BabyGay™ Podcast, a 2026 Webby Honoree for Best New Podcast, is released every Thursday and hosted by PJ Brescia (they/them)—a 2025 Out100 honoree—celebrating queer stories, self-discovery, and the power of authenticity.Produced by Tom Gault and PJ Brescia. Special thanks to The Black Cat.Follow, like, and subscribe on TikTok , Instagram , and YouTube: @babygaytvwww.baby.gay