Kelly’s Story: Independence, Identity & Life Beyond the Label

In this deeply personal and candid episode of the Shining Brighter Podcast, host Jared Braun sits down with Kelly Clark—self-advocate, co-host, and long-time member of the Fort St. John Association for Community Living. Kelly opens up about his journey from leaving home at 19, navigating challenging HomeShare placements, and growing into a confident advocate with big dreams for his future.Together, they talk about the realities of supported living, the desire for true independence, and the emotional weight of rules that sometimes conflict with personal freedom. Kelly shares his aspirations—finishing school, starting a family, owning his own home—and how he continues to push forward despite barriers in housing, dating, transportation, and accessibility.With honesty and humour, Kelly brings listeners into his world: the frustrations, the victories, and the fierce determination to be seen as a whole person, not defined by disability.Episode HighlightsKelly’s first connection with ACL and the challenges of transitioning into supported livingThe highs and lows of HomeShare placements—and what makes a good providerHis dreams for independence: owning a home, hiring his own staff, building a familyFrustrations with systemic restrictions around visitors, transportation, and home rulesDating in a small town and seeking genuine connectionWhy advocacy matters—and Kelly’s role on the ACL Board of DirectorsAccessibility struggles in Fort St. John and hopes for a more inclusive communityThe goals behind Kelly’s personal podcast, You’re Not AloneKelly’s Message“See the person, not the disability. I’m just like everyone else—I want a good life, real love, independence, and a chance to be heard.”Tune in for an honest, laughter-filled, and powerful conversation about perseverance, identity, and redefining independence.Subscribe to the Shining Brighter Podcast to hear more stories of resilience, advocacy, and community from FSJACL.