Ken Quick Pt 2: Healing Systemic Wounds

We look at how invisible loyalties and family ledgers shape leaders, congregations, and the way power moves through a church. Ken Quick helps us trade loyalty demands for faithfulness, trace generational wounds, and move from fixing problems to healing a body.• invisible ledgers of owing and being owed• family of origin shaping leadership reactions• church origin stories imprinting power dynamics• loyalty vs faithfulness as a guiding frame• fair expectations that are clear and agreed• hiring swings and scapegoating after conflict• shifting from problem-fixing to wound-healing• tracing pain across generations with hope• reordering priorities under God for courageWe appreciate when you like, subscribe, rate, or review our show whenever you're listeningResources for youKen Quick – Healing the Heart of Your Church, The 8th Letter Stephen R. Covey – The 7 Habits of Highly Effective PeopleEdwin H. Friedman – Generation to GenerationEdwin H. Friedman – A Failure of NerveMurray Bowen – Family Therapy in Clinical PracticePeter Scazzero – Emotionally Healthy RelationshipsIvan Boszormenyi-Nagy – Between Give and Take, Invisible LoyaltiesExodus 20:5 – Generational patterns affecting later generations. Matthew 18:15–17 – Addressing issues directly and relationally. Galatians 6:1–2 – Bearing one another’s burdens as part of healing. 1 Corinthians 12:12–27 – The church as a body, not a machine or business. Ephesians 4:15–16 – Growth and healing of the body through truth and love.TermsFamily of Origin – The family system in which a person is raised and first learns values, roles, and emotional patterns. Projection – Attributing unresolved family-of-origin dynamics onto present relationships, including onto God. Knee-Jerk Hiring – Swinging from one leadership extreme to another in reaction to past dysfunction. Scapegoating – Assigning blame Support the showPlease connect with us at our Website, Facebook, LinkedIn, and YouTube. If you'd like to support the work of Flourish Coaching you can click here to make a donation.Connect with Jeremy to discuss podcasting.