Key Lessons On Separating Identity From Behaviour - Tommi Siro, Co-Founder & CGO of Jobilla

Imagine one morning waking up on the military campus and seeing 160 people laughing at you - their supposed leader. Should you run away and pretend nothing ever happened? Should you tell yourself that this is not for you and it is time to move on? Or maybe sit down for a moment, admit the brutal truth, and turn it into the most valuable leadership journey of your life?  In this episode, Cocoon Program CEO Farhad Niyoz talks with Tommi Siro, Co-Founder and CGO of Jobilla. Tommi opens up about making a historical embarrassment of himself while serving in the mandatory military and how many lessons he took from it to his entrepreneurship journey as a co-founder. Learn about The Stockdale Paradox and the key steps to becoming a leader that others want to follow. Tommi also shares his experience with mentorship and advice for CEOs facing a crisis or as Tommi sees them - brutal facts.  Overview of the topic: 01:10 Welcome Co-Founder and CGO of Jobilla Tommi Siro 2:35 Turning embarrassment around: Tommi's story of messing up badly in the military 9:42 How to approach major mistakes and turn them around 13:06 Key steps to becoming a leader that others want to follow 18:57 Undeniable impact of loving parenthood 22:29 Why and How: Transforming shortcomings into strength 27:51 How honesty and carelessness might be the key to building self-awareness 32:13 Desensitizing confrontation: Seeking WHY behind every argument 35:26 The Stockdale Paradox: Leadership growth with honesty and gratitude 40:26 Advice for crises: Face the brutal facts, take action accordingly 43:04 Using mentorship to expand your bubbles and views 47:58 Correlation between mental resilience, simplicity, and happiness Welcome to Inner Power Particles. We talk with entrepreneurs and leaders about their challenges and lessons learned to improve their inner strength. We do this to  share their journey and knowledge with you so that you can improve as a leader and a person. Resources: To learn more useful tools for CEOs and C-level managers,  ➡️ https://www.cocoonprogram.com/resources Uncover how to scale your business fast with clarity,  ➡️ https://www.cocoonprogram.com/scale Follow Tommi Siro CGO and Co-Founder of Jobilla ➡️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommi-siro-88684260/ Follow Farhad Niyoz CEO of Cocoon Program  ➡️ https://www.cocoonprogram.com/Mentors/Farhad-Niyoz