He Fought for 50 50 Custody While Raising His Autistic Son and Trying to Hold Himself Together

Kiran became a single father after his marriage ended. In the early days he was overwhelmed by separation, sudden life changes and the pressure of learning how to parent an autistic child on his own. He talks honestly about asking for more time with his son, why he felt uncomfortable even though he knew he was entitled to it, and the long journey toward a 50 50 arrangement. He shares the challenges that came with autism, from sensory triggers and meltdowns to development delays and the routines his son depended on. Kiran explains how he educated himself, attended courses, changed his work life and structured everything around being present. He also opens up about therapy, burnout, fear and the moment he realised he needed help. This is a grounded, honest look at fatherhood, separation and raising a child with additional needs. Themes Parenting an autistic child Sudden separation Asking for custody Structure and routine Sensory triggers and meltdowns Rebuilding life as a single dad Emotional cycles and identity Why this episode matters Many single fathers feel unprepared for the emotional and practical demands of raising a child with additional needs. Kiran’s story gives real insight into the pressure men carry and the strength they find. 🔔 Don't miss this inspiring episode! Like, subscribe, and share to support The Dad Project and highlight the incredible journeys of single fathers everywhere. Follow Kiran Dhilan Instagram: www.instagram.com/k17_pan/ Follow The Dad Project Instagram: www.instagram.com/thedadprojecthq Facebook: www.facebook.com/thedadprojecthq TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@thedadprojecthq YouTube: @thedadprojecthq X (Twitter): www.x.com/thedadprojecthq LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/the-dad-project #SingleDadsOfColor #Fatherhood #ParentingJourney #Resilience #AutismAwareness #TheDadProject #EqualCustody #ParentingChallenges #FatherhoodInspiration