kisses to my exes, new friends in your 20s & becoming your best self in 2026

welcome back to how sebbie c’s it 🤍this solo episode is a new year reflection recorded on january 1st, 2026 - a calm, honest reset after a deeply transformative year.in this episode, i’m talking about:​going through multiple breakups in 2025 and finally finding peace with my exes​letting go of limerence, fantasy, and the need to be chosen​what it actually feels like to be happy being single for the first time​making real, meaningful friendships in your mid-20s (not just drinking buddies)​releasing scarcity, old belief systems, and relationships that no longer serve you​healing publicly after growing up with fear, control, and perfectionism​reclaiming my creativity, writing music again, and committing to my album​setting intentions for 2026 rooted in curiosity, expansion, and self-trust this episode is about choosing yourself, holding boundaries, staying curious, and trusting that what’s meant for you will find you — even if you have to walk alone for a while.no pressure. no forcing. just clarity, growth, and riding the wave dude!!thanks for being here.Follow me and connect! :)​tiktok: @sebastiancail​instagram: @sebastiancail