Kwohanĩra kuma ngoro thĩinĩ.

Our forgiveness should not be superficial but should come from deep down our hearts. Unless we deliberately choose to forgive and let go, we may also not experience the forgiveness that God extends to us when we go to him. Forgiveness is costly and it is important to count the cost of forgiveness if we are to avoid revisiting the issue and discussing it with others in future. God is always willing to give you the grace to forgive when it appears impossible