Leading a Skeptic Spouse, Unresolvable Conflicts, SEW Method

Join the Hui Deal Pipeline Club and secure a personal one-on-one call with Lane!https://thewealthelevator.com/clubWe dig into conflict resolution, particularly between spouses or close partners. The speakers go in-depth on how individuals approach and react to disagreements differently, often compelled by personal histories and emotions. They emphasize that the goal should be achieving mutual understanding rather than 'winning'. Various techniques are suggested such as the 'SEW method' (Sensation, Emotion, and Want), the importance of non-verbal communication, taking turns to speak and listen, and listing non-negotiables versus flexible points to find common ground. Notably, they underline that many conflicts may be unresolvable, highlighting the need for flexibility, compromise, mutual respect and understanding.00:05 Navigating Differences in a Relationship During a Pandemic00:57 Understanding the Dynamics of Spousal Disagreements01:58 Common Mistakes in Resolving Disputes02:19 The Importance of Avoiding Personal Attacks03:26 Understanding the Concept of Stonewalling05:26 Strategies for Effective Communication08:42 The Importance of Understanding the 'Why' Behind Disagreements10:25 The Three Levels of Arguments19:02 The Importance of Body Language in Communication20:39 Understanding Unresolvable Conflicts21:37 Practical Strategies for Navigating Disagreements23:38 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsConnect with me:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lanekawaoka/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheWealthElevatorInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheWealthElevatorLane Kawaoka is a multi-family syndicator who owns 10,000+ rental units and is the leader of “Hui Deal Pipeline Club” which has acquired over $2.1 Billion AUM of real estate by syndicating over $186 Million Dollars of private equity since 2016.Lane uses his Engineering degree to reverse engineer the wealth building strategies that the rich use in the Top-50 Investing Podcast, The Wealth Elevator. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.