Leah & Dr. Willow: Why Am I Never In The Mood? Spontaneous Vs Responsive Desire And What It Means For Your Love Life | #186

Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!You fell madly in love. The sex was electric. Then life happened; kids, careers, cortisol, and somewhere along the way, one of you stopped wanting it as much as the other. If mismatched libidos are quietly creating distance in your relationship, you are not broken and neither is your partner. Research suggests that up to 80% of couples will experience some form of desire discrepancy at some point in their relationship and it is one of the most common reasons couples seek help. But there is a road back and it is more accessible than you think. In this honest, deeply practical episode, hosts Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown go deep on why long-term relationships lose their erotic charge and exactly what to do to rebuild it.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSThe behaviors that made desire feel effortless in early courtship were actively feeding responsive desire. Rebuild those behaviors and you rebuild the libido.Stress and cortisol are among the most underacknowledged drivers of low sex drive in long-term relationships. Addressing what is creating pressure in your daily life is sexual health work.You can take responsibility for your own turn-on rather than waiting for a partner to guess their way to it.Short Tantric practices do not require a full intimacy session. Even five minutes of breath and eye contact can meaningfully shift the dynamic between partners.Knowing what you want erotically, your accelerators, is at least as important as knowing what you do not want.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/mismatched-libido-long-term-relationshipsSlow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE Support the showPlease help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/newFREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website