Learning to Trust Ourselves with Shelly Robinson

How much do you trust yourself to make decisions? Women especially are taught in both subtle and not so subtle ways not to trust ourselves. We are given messages over and over again that we don’t know enough, that we don’t do enough, that we aren’t enough. (Then, when we ARE true to ourselves, we’re told we’re “too much.”) This feeds a need to prove ourselves and to try to control other people’s behavior and emotions for us to be “okay.” The self-relationship is the cornerstone of all relationships and it is reflected powerfully by our children, if we’re willing to look and learn.In this episode of the Unlimited Podcast I invited Shelly Robinson to join me for a conversation exploring the need for control and learning to trust ourselves.Some of what we talk about in this episode include:Disrupting patterns of beingReleasing labels and behavior as a basis for worthCreating space to make decisions from loveThe importance of building our own resilienceBeing aware of what you’re focusing on Nurturing relationships with kids or anyone starts with knowing yourselfThank you for listening!If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  @unlimitedcoachvalI love to hear your thoughts and I'm always happy to answer any questions. You can shoot me an email at [email protected] or DM me on InstagramAND don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Why Our Collective Obsession with Productivity Keeps Us from Rest – The Notable Woman PodcastKintsugi – The centuries old Japanese art of repairing broken pottery and transforming it into a new work of art with gold [video]How to Break the Nightly Cycle Of Mom Shame CONNECT WITH SHELLY ROBINSON:InstagramFacebook ResourcesWebsiteCONNECT WITH VALERIE:Facebook Instagram Get email updates! Work with Valerie!Send us Fan MailSupport the show