Learning to Trust Yourself: Finding Confidence Beyond External Validation
from Elsplend Realities Hosted by Elo Oghenevwede Splendour
What if the biggest obstacle to making better decisions isn't a lack of knowledge—but a lack of trust in your own judgment? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, finance professor and former institutional investor Michael Ijeh explores the hidden struggle of high achievers who excel by following the rules but hesitate when they're called to rely on their own convictions. Through his personal journey, Michael shares how moving beyond external validation transformed not only his approach to investing, but also his understanding of confidence, identity, and decision-making. Together, we examine the difference between knowing and embodying, why uncertainty exposes the quality of our self-trust, and how developing a personal philosophy can bring clarity when there are no obvious answers. We also discuss the dangers of imitation, the value of experimentation, and what it means to cultivate an authentic inner voice rather than borrowing someone else's. This conversation isn't just about investing. It's about learning to navigate life with greater confidence, making decisions that align with your values, and discovering that true mastery begins when you stop trying to think like everyone else. Because lasting confidence isn't built by always being right—it's built by learning to trust yourself when the outcome is still unknown.
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