Less Than a Grain of Sand with Guest, Tristan Chicklowski

Episode 190Neurodiversity and the Spectrum of Human DiversityTristan Chicklowski discussed neurodiversity and individualdifferences. Tristan compares the spectrum of human diversity to a guitar with five strings but infinite musical possibilities. he explored the importance of balancing objectivity and subjectivity in decision-making, emphasizing the need for a grounded reality while acknowledging that perspectives can change over time. Managing Overwhelming Information StrategiesTristan shared strategies for managing overwhelminginformation and organizing tasks. He suggested using post-it notes as a visual tool for organizing and suggested focusing on the bigger picture rather than getting bogged down in details. He also advised against over-organizing and instead recommended capturing and orientating information. Navigating Autism and Dyslexia ExperiencesTristan discussed his experiences with his partner, who ison the Asperger's spectrum. Tristan explained that his partner doesn't feel emotions like jealousy or anger and instead associates things with utility. He also shared how they had long conversations about perception of reality, andhow his partner’s intelligence and lack of emotional understanding made it difficult for him to connect with others. Tristan emphasized the importance ofself-awareness and understanding in these situations                   Tristan's Pragmatic Approach to LifeTristan discussed his pragmatic approach to life,emphasizing the importance of understanding and conveying messages effectively. He shared his realization that his intelligence and creativity should be usedto move things forward, rather than focusing on personal attacks. Tristan also highlighted his commitment to private property and honesty, and his responsibility to convey information in a way that others can comprehend.Focusing on Intent and Organic ProcessTristan highlighted the significance of understanding one'sown nature and using the prefrontal cortex to plan and execute goals. Tristan emphasized the value of acceptance and the need tounderstand one's own desires and limitations. They also touched on the concept of the shadow, suggesting that it is essential to acknowledge and understand one's own shadow to move forward. The conversation concluded with theimportance of patience and time in adjusting to new perspectives and understanding.  Tristan ChicklowskiI was born with a great Dukh, (hindi) anda dharma that wants to help alleviate the struggles that he lived with and within my whole life. For the majority of his life he assumed that we all thought and felt at the same tempo and amplitude, only after discovering his business partner and soulmate, and through a year of intense debate about hisinternal experience that Tristan realize that all of these emotions that he felt internally, and they were all consuming, were not the same by everyone.Like Plato's Allegory of the Cave, he was a prisoner chainedinside a cave, only able to see shadows on the wall, believing them to be reality.OrJohn Newton' Redemption as conveyed in the hymn AmazingGrace"I once was lost, but now am found, Was blind, but nowI see"Tristan Chicklowski is the founder of The FoUND Project (TheFoundation of Undiscovered Neuro Diversity), dedicated to empowering individuals with neurodiversities like ADHD and Autism. Through mindfulness, self-awareness, and interest-first career programs, Tristan helps participantsunlock their potential, fostering financial literacy and independence. His mission is to create a world where neurodivergent talents are recognized and nurtured for collective growth.The FoUND Project:Website -   https://thefoundproject.org/about-usFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/FoundProject/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5r4DIpUxkjdTIEebJ6f2Rg/discussionSuccess Strategies by Design: https://events.successstrategy.design/ideas-to-action