Let's Amplify Our Life Force with Stilettos 4 Survival

Host AM Davies welcomes Mari de Luna (she/they/ella), a sex worker, to discuss how stigma, criminalization, and deplatforming compound external and internal stressors for people in the industry and why community is vital for safety, mental health, and resource access—especially for those with intersecting identities such as immigrants and neurodivergent people. Mari shares her experience of family estrangement, lessons about mutual aid, and the importance of vetting support networks, including tools like pod mapping and safety planning. She describes her background with autism, CPTSD, ADHD, burnout, addiction, and four years of sober-ish living, and explains her work through Stilettos for Survival and neurosomatic intelligence, offering body-based practices for nervous system regulation. Mari previews collaborations on sober-ish eroticism and an upcoming workshop integrating somatics with anti-oppressive financial tools. All the links: Stilettos 4 Survival Donate to our work  ⁠YAS Work Instagram⁠ ⁠YAS Work BlueSky⁠ ⁠YAS Work Twitter⁠ ⁠YAS Work Youtube YASStore.Shop All the chapters: 00:00 Stress And Vitality 00:43 Show Intro And Mission 01:36 Meet Mari De Luna 02:49 Finding Community 04:20 Mutual Aid Necessity 06:38 Intersectionality And Safety 09:06 Power With Not Over 11:07 Deconstructing Hierarchy 14:05 Synchronicity And Intuition 15:53 Sex Work Emotional Intelligence 18:11 Ancestors And Legacy 19:38 Isolation And Pod Mapping 23:27 Mari Work And Training 23:58 Neurodivergence to Sobriety 26:31 Somatic Practices Explained 27:49 Lavender Grounding Demo 29:40 Workshops and Collaborations 33:19 Regulation for Modern Stress 36:44 Community Survival Framework 40:23 Spanish Message to Comrades 42:28 Why Community Matters 44:44 Stilettos for Survival Mission 46:06 Closing and Credits