Let's Be Real - Mama Journeys - Episode 135 W/Aureen Monteiro

Aureen Monteiro is an author of a book called Rise Higher, to manage stress for women in higher profile positions.  She became a mom at 27 with her one and only baby girl. She is a teenager now and it's been a roller coaster as a mama of a teenager!  The spectrum of emotions is something she didn't see coming. She was worried she would lose her connection with her preteen but she learned that she needed to listen more and talk less. Evolving as a mom as our kids evolve is so important.  Tweaking your communication methods is essential in order to continue the relationship in a positive way. Her biggest challenge as a new mom was the unintended c-section and breastfeeding.  It truly takes a village to raise a child. She had a village and sometimes that wasn't enough. There are nights when you just sit and cry right alongside your kiddos. Her daughter made her proud when she was in 5th grade when she wrote her own book. She had her own book published about being bullied and how to get through that. They are both writing books simultaneously and it's a really wonderful way to connect with each other. Her least favorite mama moment was when she realized she had an identity crisis. She went from being Aureen to only being her daughter's mom. Losing your own identity is hard. Be open to listening to what your kids share without judgement. Their way of communicating might be different than the ways you expect but give them the time and space. Be willing to pivot your communication ways! She used to wish she would have had a manual but learning alongside her daughter has been an amazing 14 years. Her website is risefromtheash.com where you can learn more about her journey and how to manage stress.