Let's Talk About It-Expectations of A First Date

Do you expect to be impressed, have a great conversation, or just be observed?  If you are a man, do expect to score on the first date with a kiss or an over night stay?  If you are a woman, do you expect a move will be made for a kiss or an over night stay?  What are the do's and don't's of a first date?  What do you expect from a first date?  Then what from a second date?