Let's talk about sex baby 🤫

It's time we break the mold and start having sex-positive conversations, to create a more sex-positive world and culture. And to help me do this I've got Alexa Martinez on the show with me today. Alexa is a sex coach and mentor on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality expression across the globe. She's from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it's her. She's the founder of The Violet Butterfly, a blog about love, sex & relationships and she speaks internationally on the same subjects. On today's show we chat about: - Sex (duh!) - How Alexa's struggle in an undersexed  relationship steered her from a degree in forensic science to becoming a "sexually curious misfit", sex coach and mentor - Porn and sexual health - Ethical porn recommendations that focus on conscious creative porn and pleasure like Cindy Gallop - Make Love Not Porn Erika Lust - Porn with a feminine point of view - The most interesting topics covered and conversed about in her community space Non- ejaculatory orgasms Yoni eggs Threesomes and open relationships extreme love Adult breastfeeding (yup, you read that right) - BDSM -bondage, dominance-submission, sadism, masochism - How you can create a relationship model that works with you and for you - Sexual oppression and repression