Lets talk dirty shall we?

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit melissalouise.substack.comLover… can we talk dirty for a moment?No, seriously.Not just the moans and the filthy whispers (though, goddess yes!!! more of that please)…Let’s talk about dirty ( pleasure ) talk. The words we crave to hear… or at times fear to speak.For some, dirty talk is the eroticism to their ecstasy. And for others, it feels like speaking a foreign language while naked under pressure that turns things south in a second.Is dirty talk hot... or just awkward for you? Just like any other skill it needs to be practiced.What is great about it? The Pros:* It can turn you and your body on with just words alone. A whisper in your ear can feel like a hand on your thigh. ( mmmhhh melt )* It builds anticipation and tension. (Tease me with your voice before you touch me.)* It’s a playground for desire, fantasy, and power dynamics.* It helps you claim your desires out loud which is seriously hot AF.* AND It builds intimacy What is not so hot about it…. * It can feel awkward or performative if it’s not authentic.* Some people go straight to porn language which might feel disconnected or harsh.* It can bring up shame, self-consciousness, or fear of saying the “wrong” thing.* If partners are not attuned, it can miss the mark (and kill the mood instead of lighting it up).* Without consent and boundaries, dirty talk can go from hot to harmful real fast.So… how do we make dirty talk hot?In my video above I go through the ways to do so and I have included a great resource to get started on your sexy journey of turning your words into a sexy party all on their own.Basically, your voice is as powerful as your body.To get access to the entire video be sure to be a paid subscriber lover.Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.With moans, magic, and a wink,Melissa LouiseSacred Sexuality Coach | Erotic Blueprint™ MentorTurning you on, one word at a time 💋