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Dec 19, 2025 8 min

Letters Under the Floorboard

from the ADHD philosopher Hosted by Emma Gat

Show Notes: Letters Under the Floorboard Episode Summary Why do people with ADHD feel such a strong need to share everything they find important? In this episode, I talk about the exhausting cycle of seeking external validation, the loneliness of feeling like "too much," and how I accidentally discovered a different way to relate to myself through journaling. Spoiler: it involves writing letters to future me and hiding them under a metaphorical floorboard. What I Cover The ADHD experience of finding a LOT of things important (and needing someone to confirm they matter) Why rejection sensitivity turns us into bottomless pits for validation That Ashlee Simpson song that perfectly captured my teenage desperation to be seen How I started using Day One as a journal in 2017 (and what I actually put in there) The shift from "I'm journaling because I have no one to talk to" to "I'm writing letters to future me" Why future me is a way better audience than present everyone else What it means to choose yourself on purpose Resources Mentioned Day One (journaling app): https://dayoneapp.com "Shadow" by Ashlee Simpson (yes, really) Connect With Me Threads: https://www.threads.com/@emgat.adhd Substack: embrain.substack.com Gumroad: emdhd.gumroad.com Coaching inquiries: [email protected] ♥️ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit embrain.substack.com

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